Putting the “MEN” back in MENTORING

This past Resurrection Sunday, I joined about 4 other brothers in going inside the Baltimore City Juvenile Justice Center to lead a nontraditional worship experience for the young brothers who were incarcerated. Spearheaded by Rev. Russell St. Bernard (who’s now serving as a Youth Pastor in FL), we had a wonderful time taking the gospel of Jesus Christ behind the bars of juvenile lockup. Since that time, I’ve been itchin’ to get back behind bars to reconnect with young men in that situation. I knew that though a one time visit was nice, if we were going to make a major impact we needed to establish a program that included weekly visits.
Thee one and only Ezekiel Jackson of Soul Cannon (SIDEBAR:This brother has a serious gift from God as an MC and musician. Soul Cannon’s sound demands an international audience and I’m sure that a much larger platform is coming. Support my Brother!) and I have been mulling over how we bring greater permanency to the idea of mentoring incarcerated youth since we both walked behind those bars on Easter Sunday 2007. Then Anjelene Branch, Case Manager Supervisor from the Charles Hickey School called me looking for mentors. Hickey is a state-owned facility operated by the Department of Juvenile Services providing alternative education options to detained youth ages 12-18.
God worked it out so that the same week that she called me with that request I was scheduled to go on 1010AM for the Pause for the Cause Radio show. I made the request public over the mic and challenged men listening to pick up the phone and call me. Larry Brown heard the interview and remembered that we had met each other on the basketball court last summer. He called my God-Brother and got my number. David Overton a.k.a. “O-V” had just completed mentor training with a mentoring organization that I’m connected to so when his college classmate from Coppin State - Larry Brown - called him telling him about me and the challenge to mentor at Hickey, he was all for it. God really orchestrated our steps and tightened the loop on brothers that were already loosely connected.
After weeks of planning and preparation, the day finally came for us to begin our weekly mentoring sessions at Hickey. This past Saturday, November 2nd was our first day. I was excited and a little anxious not knowing what to expect. The brothers and I had been praying and planning - thankful that God would use us to reach out to young brothers behind bars, but how would they receive us?
We gathered at 9:30AM at the front gate and proceeded to make our way to the classroom. Ms. Branch met us there and we had a short talk about what our plan was. We are going to do weekly sessions every Saturday morning for 90 minutes. Half of our time, we’ll focus on some topic to engage the brothers on and the other half we’ll spend playing basketball, working out, or doing some other type of physical activity.
The moment finally came. We were sitting in the classroom talking amongst ourselves when the brothers began to file in. We greeted every brother - and every lil brother looked just like us. And I shouldn’t say “lil” - some of the brothers were taller than us - well taller than me anyway. We had young men ranging from 14 - 18 years old. For the next 90 minutes we had our orientation and introductions. We wanted the brothers to get a feel of who we are and we wanted to see who they were. The session went far better than what I expected for a first encounter. Usually, brothers are a bit slower in connecting to other brothers, but as things progressed everyone really seemed to open up. One brother who is scheduled to be released this week even made sure to let the group know how much he appreciated us taking time away from our families on a Saturday to come and reach out to them. He said, “I may never see ya’ll again because I’m about to get out, but I can tell this is going to be a good program and I appreciate ya’ll coming out.” I could’ve broke down right there. It’s amazing how quickly I became attached to the brothers. About two of them are scheduled to be released this week so I made sure that they have access to my cell # so that I can link them to job and educational opportunities once they get out.
That’s one of the features of our mentoring program. We are going to stay connected to these young men even after they are released or transferred so that we can continue to provide support for their transition back into society. An overwhelming number of them had multiple arrests and had been detained numerous times. Larry, Eze, OV, and I plan to put a brick in the revolving door so that these young men find the path that will lead to them embracing their fullest potential.
I really look forward to next Saturday. We have a great group of young men and I’m hopeful that God will continue to use us to be true mentors to them.
Kudos to Larry Brown, David Overton, Jr., and Ezekiel Jackson. I really enjoy serving alongside these committed brothers. We have a special chemistry and I’m honored to know men that are serious about reaching out to others despite the fact that they have families and many other responsibilities of their own. So if you’ve read this far down the page, take a minute to let Larry, OV, and Eze know how much you appreciate them BEING (not talking) the change that they wish to see in the world! (Also, support David Overton, Jr. who has started a Christian clothing line called “Sons for Christ“. Get at him for more information. Support my Brother!)
Brothers, let’s MAN UP and be good fathers to our own and strong mentors to those young brothers who need our support!
You want to be a mentor? Holla at me. (only serious inquiries please)
November 6th, 2007 at 2:50 pm
hey rev. are they looking for more mentors or male volunteers? if so. what are the requirements?
Keep up the good work!
November 6th, 2007 at 7:24 pm
Mos def. All interested parties should call Ms. Anjelene Branch for more information. Her email is brancha [at] djs.state.md.us
Her number is (410) 663-7610.
If people don’t have a plan for a program and want to do something more structured as far as mentoring they can call the Maryland Mentoring Partnership to become a mentor. (410) 685-8316.
Thanks for helping to spread the word.
[sorry - I missed the townhall tonight. I just learned of it when I went to your blog just now]
December 30th, 2007 at 10:50 pm
[...] As I shared last month, I am a proud mentor in a program that serves incarcerated youth at the Charles Hickey School in Baltimore County. I’ve joined with four other strong brothers and we go to Hickey every Saturday for a strong 90 minute session - half youth develoment / half recreation. [...]
September 30th, 2008 at 10:03 pm
I was reading some of the 90 minute session you and the brothers are having with the young brothers at Charles Hickey Detention Center in Baltimore M.D. it touched my heart. My son has recently been detained there since September 28, 2008 his name is S.Gibbs he is 16 years of age we moved here to Baltimore about 9 months ago within that period of time he has a rap sheet forever long for being caught up in the gang being someone I know he’s not. He was raised in a chirstian home no violence drugs abusive language his father is a Bishop of a pentcostal faith. My son has played drums in his dad church since the age of 1 if you can, if you are still going to Charles Hickey “pray with my son encourge him”.
Thank You
Sharon Times
September 30th, 2008 at 10:05 pm
Keep in touch
October 1st, 2008 at 11:50 am
Hello Sis. Times and thanks for the note. Unfortunately, my group is no longer at Hickey, but a good brotha of mine named Dante Wilson is with his organization called Reclaiming our Children and Community Project. Bro. Dante is very adept in gang culture and the accompanying mentality. Hopefully, your son is attending the sessions. I believe another brother of mine is out there as well - David Miller and his organization - Urban Leadership Institute.
Feel free to keep me in the loop on how your son is doing. Being a “preacher’s kid” myself, I have a special affinity for other pk’s.
God bless.
October 8th, 2008 at 2:37 pm
This young man’s plight is indicative of a major trend that has been taking place in Baltimore for quite some time. I’m a mentor program coordinator here in Baltimore City. We are targeting youth in elementary and middle schools so that we can help them to make better choices at an earlier age. Our program name F.O.C.U.S. stands for Follow One Course Until Success and that is our objective. We are a community based program working in concert with Baltimore City Public Schools as well as the Mayor’s Baltimore Rising Project to capture these young men and women now. We will continue to hold those young men who are in these types of situations up in prayer, but we also need men to stand up and say enough is enough. We need men who are so concerned about seeing a change in our community that they make a commitment to mentor one of our youth. If you are one of those brothers that wants to help a young man to become an agent for change, please contact us @ 443-759-7525 to become a volunteer mentor today. Visit our website, http://www.focusmentoringprogram.com. This is real for us. We don’t do this for money, we do this to maximize the potential in our youth.
October 14th, 2008 at 9:24 pm
Hello, MAY GOD BE A BLESSING,
Thanks for responding to my note about my son Sederick. He have attending some mentoring groups that have been coming to see the youth at Charles Hickey” he seems to have a positive mind about life and what he wants to do when they release him. Bro: H. Brown III, keep Sederick in your daily pray. He goes to court on Oct 29,2008 my pray is for him to be released to me I’m believing in our Lord and Savior that he will be coming home with me on that day just pray for him and us as a family that we continue to grow strong together and in the word of God. I will end my note know just for me and Sederick tell Bro: Dante Wilson and Bro: David Miller to encourage him and keep his head up
Thank You
Sharon